No Fault, Arguing, Conflict
They Might Be Thinking:
We can't agree on how we deal with family issues.
We can't agree on how to balance home and work.
We never seem to be able to communicate effectively.
We have difficulty setting expectations for our sex life.
I just can't deal with all of my partner's unique personal habits and issues.
He expects me to be his mother when it comes to taking care of the house and kids.
Her friends know too much about the personal details of our relationship.
We have very different political views.
I just can't deal with the misogynistic comments.
I can't continue to live in debt. I need to get my financial house in order.
My partner will not stop drinking to save the relationship.
My partner will not stop playing video games to spend more time with me or the kids.
We can't seem to agree on how to raise our children.
My partner wants to come and go as he/she pleases, and does not respect me as a person.
Words That Might Be Encouraging:
You should feel good about the fact that you have exhausted all the possibilities.
If you have given it your best shot, what more can someone ask of you?
I think you have given this lots of consideration and effort.
It sounds like you are at peace with your decision.
Sometimes people change in ways that could not have been foreseen.
Better to be happy apart, than together and miserable.
Sometimes people just grow apart from one another.
Sometimes the best thing to do is to just move on.
Sometimes saying no is more difficult than saying yes.
Words That Might Be Discouraging:
Once a jerk, always a jerk.
I think your parnter has always been in this relationship for the money.
You should keep trying to work things out.
What are you going to tell the children?
I never really thought you guys were that good together.
When are you going to start dating again?
Are you going to sell the house soon?
What are you going to do for housing?
When are you moving out?
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