My Husband

Honor, Respect, Belief, Support, Encourage, Inspire

He Might Be Thinking:

  • Does my spouse like me for who I am, or because of what I can do for him/her?
  • When my spouse complains about me, does that mean he/she does not like me?
  • Does my spouse really understand what is important to me?
  • Does my spouse understand my love language? 
  • I hope I am meeting my spouse's financial expectations.
  • Am I doing enough to keep my spouse happy?
  • Am I satisfying my partner's physical needs?
  • I wonder if my spouse still loves me after all of these years.
  • How can I make my partner happier without spending a lot of money?
  • Sometimes I really don't understand what my spouse is talking about.
  • How much money do I need to make to be sure my spouse is taken care of if I die?
  • What should I be doing to encourage my spouse to feel in the mood for intimacy?
  • Does my spouse appreciate all of the things I am doing to keep him/her satisfied?

Words That Might Be Encouraging:

  • I believe in you.
  • I love you more now than when I first met you.
  • I am so glad you asked me to marry you.
  • I wish your mother really knew how good of a husband you are.
  • I want to be the best possible partner that I can be for you.  
  • What more could I be doing to make you happier as my husband?
  • I wish we could spend more time together, but I understand that you are working so hard right now to give us more security.
  • One of my biggest priorities is to help you achieve your personal goals.
  • I want you to become the best version of yourself.
  • I am grateful that God put us together.
  • I feel spiritually connected to you.
  • I can’t believe we are already celebrating another anniversary.  
  • Time flies when you are married to the right person.
  • Talking to you is one my favorite things to do with my free time.
  • I love the way your brain works.
  • I can't imagine being married to anyone but you.
  • I am glad I didn't settle for second best; I got you.
  • Even if you had no money, I would still be happy being with you.
  • There is no one else I would want to start a family with than you.
  • Your gray hair makes you look really sexy to me.
  • You always have my back.
  • You always have my best interests at heart.
  • I'm looking forward to growing old with you.
  • Marrying you was one of the best decisions I have ever made.
  • If I would have known then what I know now, I still would have asked you to marry me.

Words That Might Be Discouraging:

  • You never spend any time with me.
  • You are too busy.
  • I am tired of cleaning up after you.
  • We never have fun anymore.
  • You seem to think everyone else is attractive except me.
  • Why don't you look at me the way you used to?
  • Do you think I look fat in this outfit?
  • Do I remind you of my mother?
  • I am not your maid; can you do your part?
  • I feel like you don't try as hard to be romantic since we have been married.
  • You never [fill in the blank].
  • Do you expect me to do everything around the house?
  • Do you know what it means to be good husband?
  • You need to start exercising.
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