Starting A New Friendship

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Should I try to initiate a friendship?
Is this person worth the effort?
What topics are appropriate to discuss early in the new relationship?
I want to develop an authentic connection, but I am not sure where to start.
Should I reach out on social media? Which medium is the most important?
Should I ask around about this new acquaintance before building rapport?
Is this person going to be worth the investment of my time and energy?
How do I strike up a conversation with someone I don’t know?
What do I do after I meet someone for the first time?
How do I make sure that I don’t scare the person off with my interest in a friendship?
How frequently should I engage with someone new?
What are some simple ways to engage with someone via text to build rapport?
What do I do If the person stops responding to my requests to engage?
Is it ok to invite someone to attend an event after meeting them only once?
Should I just stick with my current group of friends?
What happens If the person thinks I am coming on too strong?
How do I find the right balance between what to say and the frequency of communications?

I really enjoyed meeting you. I am looking forward to connecting again.
Try to establish a tempo of communication that is weekly, monthly or quarterly.
I would like to continue our discussion sometime.
I like what you stand for. We need more authenticity in the world.
I would like to encourage you to keep pursuing your dream. You have to keep going.
I would love to introduce you to some of my friends.
I am having a little party next week. We would love to have you attend.
I am usually available for lunch or coffee during the week if you have time next week.
What are you looking forward to doing over the next few weeks?
Talk about positive aspects of your life and areas you are trying to improve.

I have just been so busy with my life that I have had no time to connect with anyone.
I wish I knew more about what was going on in your life.
Avoid discussions about politics, religion, and race unless you know that it is a safe topic to discuss.
Don't send more than 2-3 requests to connect before getting a response. If the person is interested in connecting, they will respond eventually...or not.
Don't be a stalker with your communications.
Don't share all of your sad stories early in the dialogue.
Don't share private information about others.
Avoid gossiping about other people's problems.

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